How do you deal with the hurt....

Today my sister and I had a heated argument about believe it or not  food.  We work at the same location and we decided to ride into work together.  The game plan was to stop at Boston Market for the meal special.  Before I left I fixed my lunch and packed my bag, because I don't or should I say can't eat everything on the Boston Market menu.

When we got their the place was packed and their was 45 minute wait before the next batch of chickens would be ready.  I got blamed for F***kin' around and not having time to wait on the food.  I had a gift card for Olive Garden and offered to stop there since it was on the way, needless to say that wasn't good enough.

She cursed me out in the restaurant, called me a selfish, self centered ***** add told me how much she disliked me and has always disliked me.  Talking about a WOW moment!  How would you have reacted, and what would you do about the situation now?

Hate to tell you, it's got nothing at all to do with the food.  That moment was her reason to vent her real feelings. 

She COULD have just been pissed and went off wrong in the moment..... but umm.... when *I* do **** like that - it's cause I BEEN meaning to say that **** just needed opportunity and time to do it.  

I can't say what I would do - I'm an only child - the whole sibling thing is beyond me. 

You know I think you're right, because as she was saying it she stopped in mid-stream and I told her don't stop now fini****  Get it all out and off your chest...and she did.

WOW.   she meant that **** then........

Have yall talked since?  If not - I'd make next move her move......

We rode into work together today...the ride home tonight should be real interesting to say the least.

*gulp*  ummm - you KNOW you gotta do an update, right????

That's gonna be the quietest ride EVER!!!!!  If there's an engine problem or anything wrong - you'll HEAR it - cause won't **** else be goin on!!!!!!!

Girl you are too funny....yeah I think I'll be able to hear a ping in the engine!  Update to follow, I promise!!!!!

Hey girl, I am so sorry to hear you are hurting.  The truth is, she has had some issue with you brewing for a long time, maybe even from childhood and this was just the time to blow.  I know you are hurt and you do need time to cool off, but I would first work towards forgiveness within yourself towards her.  Then I would try to talk about what is really bothering her and I would even suggest some counseling for the two of you. 

Well, truth be told even when we were younger we didn't get along, but I thought as we grew older things would change between us.  I was always the whipping post and the butt of all the fat jokes, and since I've lost the weight and she is now starting to gain weight, well lets just says things are not really good between us.

No surprises there.  You've changed the rules and she can't deal with it.  She has to deal with her demons sweetheart.  Don't let her or anyone else abuse you.  You deserve to be treated with respect.  p.s....I grew up in Lansdale/North Wales PA.  (smooch hometown girl)!